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January 2012

Take Five with Lubna Gem Arielle

Lubna Gem Arielle on Catching Fireworks Take Five blogLubna Gem Arielle is the epitome of a portfolio person with fabulously diverse skills ranging from the arts to law.  She is, amongst other things, an artist, writer, deviser, performer, actor, presenter, law lecturer and intellectual property consultant.   She uses her knowledge, imagination and experience and shares these with the world though performance and writing, whether this is telling Butterfly stories to 5 year olds or delivering law lectures to MA students.

Lubna’s latest endeavour is producing and launching a series of workshops on contracts, copyright and collaborations which will be running in mid-February / March.  These will be of great interest to creative people needing legal guidance and people interested should contact Lubna directly. 


In your professional life, what is the single best thing about what you do?  
That what I do is  consistent with who I am.  This means a great deal to me, especially as I compromised for many years in my first career as a City solicitor.   

I've gradually segued from having a “job” to  a rich and varied “livelihood”  which includes facilitating combined arts workshops for children, writing, presenting and producing educational programmes and leading workshops on contracts and copyright for small businesses.  The questions that drive me are – “will this bring me joy” and “how does it contribute to others?” For me, there has to be a good balance between the two.   

Do you have a creative hero / heroine and if so, why? 
Lots - countless artists, writers, dancers, speakers,  performers and teachers  whose work, imagination, commitment, creative energy, insights  and lives are a  constant and treasured source of inspiration. I have a creative hero / heroine for every occasion!   

Something that has come up a lot recently, both on a personal note and in conversations with people who want to change career in mid-life, is the issues and judgements around age and aging.  It's taken me a long time to make the changes I wanted to see – making a forwards and backwards journey along a diagonal line. On that front,  Louise Hay is a wonderful role model. She has enriched  the lives of so many with her work as a teacher, author and publisher in the healing arts – and only started her  “real work” in her forties and set up her publishing company in her sixties and is committed to continual learning, even at eighty-five.  That's certainly encouragement to me that it is never too late to make a change.   

What piece of advice do you wish you had been given at the beginning of your career? 
Live the life you want and not the life someone else has drawn for you.   

It took me a long time to find the courage to follow my heart and my own dreams. The expectation of my parents and sitting behind that, their culture and upbringing, was for me to become a doctor or lawyer. I read law at university, qualified as a solicitor and spent two years advising on commercial property deals at a City law firm. My suit felt like a strait-jacket and I knew the real price of my Prada shoes; one day I just reached breaking point because my spirit was dying. I handed in my notice and embarked on a long journey, which at times has felt like a sailing of the seven seas.   

If you hit a creative block, what is your top tip for getting through it? 
Work with it!   

I'm aware that  my  sudden need to clean and tidy is a reflection of the mental clutter inside. Many things, anything - fear, self-judgement /not good-enough, overwhelm, avoidance, fatigue to name a few.   It is a bit bewildering when I suddenly find myself with a bottle of Viakal in my hand robotically thinking “ah - but these bath-taps must sparkle - now.”   I've learned to  harness this willingness to scrub - my home certainly appreciates it! And I use the rhythms of cleaning as a gentle meditation to clear and ease my mind too.   

At non-cleaning, lack-lustre times I'm aware that my  “blocks” are usually the story/article/drawing/lecture needing time to simmer for a while.  Which is fine by me – I also take time to breathe and refresh – go for a walk,  catch up with some chores or meet a friend for coffee.   

And finally, for fun, if you were a shoe, what type of shoe would you be and why?
A pair of schiaparelli pink party shoes hand-stitched by elves from soft leather I leave on the kitchen table (as in the Elves and the Shoemaker),  because the elves made such wonderful shoes.   

The  wisdom of  this story resonates with me. It always springs to mind when I think about letting new projects grow gently and gradually – a practical business lesson!  I love the magic of the story - through not giving up, a transformation begins at what seems to be the darkest hour.   

“I can’t because I need ...”

Have you ever found yourself stumped because you haven’t got the right materials or piece of equipment?  Or is that just a good excuse?  We can all let ourselves off the hook from doing our work, creative or otherwise, because we don’t have exact supplies.   

Obviously, there are times when it is essential to have a kiln, a camera, a canvas (or if you are David Hockney, an iPad).  However, when you hit a block due to no materials, it could be an opportunity for some creative thinking.   

 In the excellent British Museum exhibition, Grayson Perry: Tomb of the Unknown Craftsman, there is a small, fascinating sculpture which, Perry says, is, “a model tower I made from detritus on my kitchen table in 1983.”  This was not an artistic decision, but one made due to lack of money for materials coupled with a passionate desire to make.   

I have just finished reading “A Backward Glance”, an excellent autobiography by the 19 century author, Edith Wharton, who wrote novels including, “The Age of Innocence”, “Ethan Frome” and “The House of Mirth”.  As a child, she wanted to write, but:

“It was not thought necessary to feed my literary ambitions with foolscap, and for lack of paper I was driven to begging for the wrappings of the parcels delivered at the house.  After a while these were regarded as belonging to me, and I always kept a stack in my room.  It never occurred to me to fold and cut the big brown sheets, and I used to spread them on the floor and travel over them on my hands and knees, building up long parallel columns of blank verse headed: ‘Scene: A Venetian palace’, or ‘Dramatis Personae’ (which I never knew how to pronounce).”   

Not an auspicious start for a writer, but Wharton went on to win the Pulitzer Prize.   

How could you find a creative solution when faced with a lack of equipment?     

When having a Big Head comes in useful



I was very lucky in that I received some really super presents from lovely friends this Christmas.   

On a professional level, my favourite was a J-Me Big Head Memo Pad.  This is a fun desktop dry wipe board which has just enough room for important messages, but is too small to fill with unnecessary stuff.   

It is absolutely perfect for focussing the mind every day.  Instead of being overwhelmed by the endless to-do list, I can use this little fella to keep note of my 2 or 3 key goals for that day.  He sits next to my laptop in plain sight, so I don’t have to keep reminding myself what to do next.  And he makes me laugh, always a plus.   

In my notebook, I write down all those ideas, actions and random thoughts which come to mind during the day, but I don’t make the mistake of just adding them to a never ending to do list.  That way madness lies, because how can you ever have a sense of achievement or completion?  As each thing gets completed, I put a tick by it and when all the tasks are done, and because I am silly, I end the day by drawing a smile on little fella’s face.  It is very satisfying!  Next morning, I start with a clean slate and from my notebook, I pick the next 3 priorities.   

As well as being freed from the tyranny of the ever expanding to do list, focussing on just a few goals means that you are always working on your priorities.  How often have you ignored the “deadline tomorrow” action which you didn’t want to do in favour of the “tidy shelves” displacement activity which is at the bottom of the list?  (Oh, just me then.)  It can also improve time management - how much time have you wasted going through your entire to do list for the umpteenth time today wondering what to do next?   

(If you don’t have a Big Head, check out Mark McGuinness’s article on how he uses Post It notes. )   

At the beginning of the new year, this is a perfect time to look at your working habits and see how you might be more effective.  And if you don’t use a white board or Post It notes, do let me know how you keep track of your key priorities!